Fr A. Darmanin SJ: a “leader, innovator, activist” passes away

The death has just been announced of Rev Dr. Alfred Darmanin S.J. 

The Faculty of Social Wellbeing described him as “one of the biggest contributors to Psychology in Malta, a true and reliable friend to many and a mentor to innumerable students, some serving as lecturers and administrators at our Faculty.”

On Novemer 23, 2018 the University of Malta conferred the Doctoral degree in Literature (Honoris Causa) to Rev. Dr. Alfred Darmanin SJ. The oration was delivered by Prof Mary Anne Lauri, one of his first students in the courses of psychology and later on a colleague. 

In her oration, Prof Lauri described him as a “leader, an innovator and an activist.” is honouring the memory of Fr Alfred, as most people called him, by reproducing part of that oration by Prof Lauri which was also published on on December 2, 2018.

The full report can be accessed here.

The extracts follow:

He needed few things in life

Many people knew Fr. Darmanin as a Jesuit, as a psychologist and as an academic. He introduced the first degree in Psychology and I was lucky to be in this first cohort. I was teaching at Stella Maris College when I first met Fr. Darminin, a meeting that was the beginning of a long-term friendship. The first course in the Myers-Briggs Personality Testing changed my life course and brought about major changes in my life on various levels. I am forever indebted to him and so are many other psychologists, friends and people he has helped. I have learnt so much from Fr. Darmainin, so very much. He studied at College St. Albert and Leuven University in Brussels, Gonzaga University in Washington, Gregoriana in Rome, Michigan State University in Michigan and Berkeley University in California. His degrees in Mathematics, Philosophy, Theology and Psychology did not make him an intellectual snob but enhanced his lectures and training seminars with a special insight into human behaviour. He never showed off about his invitations to give seminars in several countries in Europe, Asia, North America, Latin America and Africa. He loved travelling, always with one piece of hand luggage, nothing more. There were very few things he needed in life. He believed in detaching oneself from worldly treasures in line with the teachings of St Ignatius. He made sure that he does not get attached to anything worldly.

Trainer of leaders

Many people do not know Fr. Darmanin as an organizational psychologist. He specialized in the Psychology of Leadership from Berkeley. He introduced psychology at the workplace and trained top and middle management, CEOs and Human Resource Managers. Thirty years ago few recognised the role of an organizational psychologist. One thing he insisted upon then, which may sound superficial to some, but which, nonetheless, is such good advice, is that the phone is a tool not a master. For many, phones have become their masters and the relationship they have with this object is sometimes stronger than many other relationships.

In his mission to disseminate psychology, he wrote books targeted at a general audience and took part regularly in TV and radio programmes. He had the skill of explaining issues in terminology, which everybody could understand. We used to tease him about Gloria Mizzi – a household name in television for a long span of time. He was her regular television guest.

Many know Fr Darmanin as a clinical psychologist. He was one of the few psychologists who was trained in administering the Rorschach test. He assessed and helped people without ever judging them. He trained hundreds of psychologists and I do not know one of them who does not look up to him. He incessantly strived to put Psychology on the public agenda.

An environmentalist and an activist

Fr Darmanin was also an environmentalist and an activist. He voted many times for Alternativa Demokratika and he publically said that he did. He wanted change and he believed that AD could instigate change. Way back in the mid-late 1990s, when access to Fekruna beach at Xemxija was cut off, he was there among all the young people who were protesting against this expropriation of shoreline that could no longer be enjoyed by the public. He did not mind when his photo was paraded on newspapers with the unwritten implication that Jesuits should not attend protests. Who knows what he would have done today when public land is being exploited by so called entrepreneurs for their very own profit.

Create a crisis

I conclude with a lesson I have learned from Fr. Darmanin. When trying to bring about change, do it gradually, do it in stages. But when all things fail, ‘create a crisis’. Harness the power of the media. That is when people stop to think about what you are saying. I have seen it happen. Yes I have learned that when people do not want to listen to good reason then you must create a crisis. And how best to do that? By having what it takes to stand up to authorities even at the risk of being discriminated against, of being discredited. And to create a crisis, the smartphone can come in handy.